The podcaster and bestselling author reflects on her split from Jelly Roll and her aspirations for motherhood
Category: Arts & Culture
Bunnie Xo, the popular podcaster and bestselling author, is embracing life after her recent divorce from musician Jelly Roll, real name Jason DeFord. In an appearance on TODAY on August 20, 2026, she expressed her newfound freedom and happiness, stating, "Ladies, they should have never let me back out in the streets because I love it here. I love it here and I’m never going back." This optimistic outlook follows the couple's split, which was publicly announced in June 2026 after nearly a decade of marriage.
The divorce, filed by Jelly Roll on May 18, 2026, just shy of their 10th wedding anniversary, was characterized as a "mutual decision" and cited irreconcilable differences, a no-fault ground for divorce in Tennessee. The couple had separated on May 9, 2026, just days before the filing. They were married in 2016 and had renewed their vows in 2023, openly sharing their struggles with infertility and their efforts to conceive through IVF.
During her recent interview, Bunnie Xo described her post-divorce life as a "blessing," emphasizing that she is thriving and enjoying new opportunities. She is a New York Times bestseller and hosts the "Dumb Blonde" podcast and has a movie based on her life in the works. "I got my smile back, and I’m having the freaking time of my life and I’m just thriving," she said. "I never thought that it would turn out to be such a blessing, but it’s such a blessing and I’m so thankful."
In her candid reflections, Bunnie Xo urged women to prioritize their own needs and well-being. "As women, we put ourselves aside so much for partners, friends, kids, and it’s like we don’t pour into ourselves," she remarked. "Sometimes you need to be selfish, and you need to pour into yourself." This message resonated with many, as she shared her hope that her experiences could inspire others facing difficult situations.
Amid her personal triumphs, Bunnie Xo remains focused on her aspirations for motherhood. She confirmed during her TODAY appearance that she still wants to have a baby, stating, "That’s going to be one of my newest chapters of my next book, and I can’t wait for you guys to read about it because it’s been one hell of ajourney, let me tell you." Previously, she had mentioned that she and Jelly Roll were still planning to conceive through IVF and surrogacy, even after their separation.
In June, during a podcast episode, Bunnie had shared that the divorce was not mutual and that ending the marriage was not her choice. She has expressed a desire to continue their plans for a family, saying, "We have been the most unconventional couple that you guys have ever encountered. We’re going to co-parent together. J is my best friend." This sentiment reflects their commitment to maintaining a positive relationship for the sake of their future children.
Jelly Roll, who has two children from previous relationships, has publicly affirmed his fondness for Bunnie Xo since their split. He has expressed gratitude for their years together, stating, "Me and my wife are best friends. We will always be best friends." This mutual respect has been a consistent theme in their public statements about the divorce, indicating that they aim to co-parent amicably and support each other moving forward.
Throughout their marriage, Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll have been open about their struggles and triumphs, including their efforts to expand their family. They began trying to conceive in 2024, using IVF, but faced challenges, including the loss of four embryos. Bunnie described this experience as emotionally and spiritually taxing, noting, "In a way, I kind of think J and I are trauma-bonded."
As she navigates this new chapter in her life, Bunnie Xo is also ahead to her educational pursuits. She has been accepted into Arizona State University to study how women's hormones are affected by IVF, a subject close to her heart. This decision reflects her commitment to personal growth and empowerment, both for herself and for other women facing similar challenges.
Looking ahead, Bunnie Xo is excited about her future projects, including the upcoming film adaptation of her bestselling book, "Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic." She has mentioned that this new chapter will also explore her motherhood aspirations and the lessons she has learned throughout her experiences. "There’s so much more to talk about with me especially, and with women, than their past lovers and people in their lives," she stated.
As Bunnie Xo continues to thrive post-divorce, she remains committed to sharing her story and encouraging others to rise above their challenges. "I just hope that myjourney can show people, 'Hey, it doesn’t matter how hard of a situation you’re going through, you’re going to get through that. You’re going to rise up and you’re going to be an even bigger version of yourself,'" she emphasized.
With her newfound independence and a focus on self-care and personal growth, Bunnie Xo is setting an inspiring example for women everywhere. As she prepares for her next steps, including her educational pursuits and potential motherhood, it is clear that she is determined to make the most of her opportunities and embrace the future with optimism.
As she concluded her thoughts on the TODAY show, Bunnie Xo left viewers with a message of hope and resilience, reminding them that even in the face of adversity, there is always a silver lining to look forward to. Her story serves as a powerful reminder that life can take unexpected turns, but with strength and determination, one can emerge stronger than ever.